The biblical model is that God deliberately chooses imperfect vessels — those who have been wounded, those with physical or emotional limitations. Then he prepares them to serve and sends them out with their weakness still evident, so that his strength can be made perfect in that weakness.
The movie Titanic was 3 hours of a old white woman reliving one of her hoe stories about how she got rawed in the back of a Ford model T by a broke ass artist. Her selfish ass made Bill Paxton and his crew listen to that long ass story and didn’t tell them she had the necklace the entire time and dropped it into the fucking ocean.